Defender of Marriage

Who knew marriage had to be defended?!  But it does.  The reason being, marriage is under attack.  The Supreme Court has decided that marriage is not only between a man and a woman, but between same sex as well.  We need to support tradition marriage, while showing love to our fellow men.  How can we do this? 

President Nelson in his speech stated, “You will have many opportunities to strengthen understanding of the Lord’s side of that argument by the eloquence of your examples, both as individuals and as families.” 
I think the best way to support traditional marriage is by example.  Example for our children, our neighbors, coworkers and all those we come in contact with.  We need to talk about our love of our marriage and our religion.  
President Nelson also stated that we can’t be “quiet and comfortable Christians.”  We must defend our religious freedoms daily!  What this means for me is to share my opinions a bit more on Facebook.  Share my love for my husband and our marriage.  Stand up for marriage.  Share with family members who are living out of wedlock the importance of marriage.  
What does this mean for you? 

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